Its never too late to Learn (my journey so far)

Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might; for there is no work, nor device, nor knowledge, nor wisdom, in the grave, whither thou goest. Ecclesiastes 9:10

It’s never too late to learn something new, I have always wanted to bake but never learnt at any point till I had so much free time during the 2020 pandemic lockdown then I found myself scrolling mindlessly through several YouTube baking videos. After countless video watching and practicing at home ( FYI my family ate a lot of weird cakes before I got it right) fast forward till today I not only bake all kinds of cakes I also learnt how to frost a birthday cake with butter cream and even how to cover a cake with fondant (is God not good to me!) and all this happened because I was away from my day to day job and had some free time.  

Thanks to the numerous YouTube videos and my family who supported me by cheering me on I can bake professionally now. I decided to share this on my blog to encourage anyone out there who wants to learn a new skill or start something they have always dreamed about!

Below is a video of my baking journey so far, please subscribe to support my channel and give me a shout out in the comments section if you watched the video from my word press blog.

Are your words louder than your actions?

Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean men. Proverbs 22:29

There is a common saying that talk is cheap how true! It is common for ambitious people to verbalize their dreams to their family and friends and possible prospective investors but the real trick comes in pursuing those ideas no matter the obstacles one might encounter. The easiest part of any plan is verbalizing it, the most important part is executing and following through. Someone who tries and fails is better than someone who only says what he or she would do without following through with necessary actions to accomplish all he or she has said.

If you observe closely everyone has some sort of dream they will like to achieve or the next big idea but the question is are they willing to pay the price to see these dreams come to reality, many people give up on dreams when the road to achieving those dreams get rough or after they have had several setbacks.

The good news is you can always have a fresh start; here are 6 ways to walk the talk.

  • Write down your dreams or ambitions, don’t just say it put it in ink and paper (a journal preferable).
  • Expect setbacks not failure, success by chance or at first trial are rare but if it happens to you then congratulations.
  • Expect hard work, someone once said people run away from opportunities because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. If you want to be successful be prepared to serve the time necessary.
  • Be accountable, have a mentor or someone who has achieved success in the area you are pursuing and seek their advice and counsel.
  • Be courageous, take a step towards achieving your dreams, I have tried it, it was scary at first but it paid off in the end. Sign up for that class, invest in that business etc. No one ever achieves anything by doing nothing.
  • Believe, be optimistic, be positive, have faith, the need for these can never be over emphasized.
  • Have faith in God and pray that all things will work for your favor.

How to overcome laziness in 2020!

 

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“Luck is always the last refuge of laziness and incompetence.” James Cash Penney

Laziness for most people is a serious problem, everyone wants to be a high achiever but are you really willing to pay the price for success, are you willing to do the time required to achieve excellence in whatever field you are in. I know some people get lucky and win lottos or get a big break despite the fact that they are not driven people or hard workers but if those people are not careful they hardly maintain their success.

 

“There is no real excellence in all this world which can be separated from right living.” David Starr Jordan

Having dreams and talking about them is not enough to be successful, you have got to walk the talk if you want to see results. You have to consistenly do the right things if you want to see great results.

 

But what does it really take to be lazy; here is my checklist for being lazy.

  • Sleeps a lot.
  • Procrastinates a lot.
  • Easily discouraged.
  • Lacks motivation and drive.
  • Buys new clothes instead of washing dirty clothes.
  • Buys take out instead of cooking a healthy meal.
  • Your idea of cleaning your apartment is throwing out everything.
  • Imagining yourself exercising instead of actually doing it.
  • Hardly meets deadlines (for assignments, projects, Bills etc.)

 

Sometimes we might just be lazy about things that do not interest us like doing your laundry, cooking, working out.

Effects of laziness

  • Under-achievement (personal or professional)

“We often miss opportunity because it’s dressed in overalls and looks like work.” Thomas A. Edison

If you are lazy about work or your personal growth, chances are that you would end up at the bottom of the food chain. It takes conscious effort and commitment to make progress in any field in life, even if you sell vegetables in the market you can become a successfully rich vegetable seller by being committed to your trade, customers and yourself. Always aim to be relevant and of value wherever you find yourself doing.

 

  • Obesity

“Whenever I feel the need to exercise, I lie down until it goes away.”  Paul Terry

Are you lazy about working out, cooking healthy meals, and getting out of bed? I have bad news for you; you are at risk from becoming obese from these unhealthy habits. Working out regularly and being conscious about the kinds of food or drinks you consume could save your life from not only obesity but other non-communicable diseases such as hypertension and diabetics.

  • Depression and self-loathing

       “Laziness may appear attractive, but work gives satisfaction.” Anne Frank.

Believe it or not just like alcoholics and drug addicts hate themselves for the way they are, laziness could bring depressive and self- hate characteristics(majorly in cases of extreme laziness). These could result from not doing much with your life, not having drive or motivation to pursue your dreams and a lot of self-sabotage that comes with laziness.

  • Innovation

“I will Always choose a lazy person to do a difficult job, Because he will find an easy way to do it.” Bill Gates

As with every other thing in life there is nothing with disadvantages without at least one advantage. Lazy people have been known to invent thing that make accomplishing tasks much easier.

Here are 6 ways to overcome Laziness

  1. Start: irrespective of how overwhelming your workload, projects or assignment might seem, the first step towards overcoming laziness is to find the courage to start and all other things will fall in place.

 

  1. Do your work in bits: Take your time, spread whatever you need to do so you don’t get discouraged. Take for example if you have a lot of laundry to do, you could divide the clothes into two or three places and do them on separate days.

 

  1. Set Goals: This is extremely helpful, as it will keep you grounded if you are committed to the goals you set. Set goals should come with a time frame for example, A goal to lose 2kg within 2 weeks of exercising. They should also be realistic so you dont wear yourself out.

 

  1. Stay motivated: Don’t give up easily, many people have failed and still became successful in their chosen field. I know its cliché to say life is full of ups and down but really don’t let one or several disappointments prevent you from pursuing your dreams.

 

  1. Give yourself little rewards: Give your-self rewards for achieving even the smallest task e.g. washing the dishes, meeting the deadline for submission of an assignment etc. This will keep you motivated.

 

  1. Don’t be hard on yourself: In my experience comparing your-self to others could often bring feelings of laziness. When you realize you are not as good as the next individual at something, you could respond in two ways either by pushing harder to be better or by not even trying at all.

 

Laziness is like a self-destruct button, as much as possible try to stay motivated and regardless of whatever happens never lose hope just keep moving forward.

Note: Sometimes we could shift into lazy mood when we are burnout or overworked, in this case I believe its ok to lay back and relax.

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Entrepreneurship or Risk Taking?


Entrepreneurship is the art of developing and managing a business venture in order to gain profit by taking several risks in the corporate world.

When we think entrepreneurship in this modern day all we see in our heads are $$$$$$$ signs, the numbers in accounts blowing up, finally getting the respect we think we deserve, meeting important people and stamping our name on the sands of time.

One of the things we might not consider is the blood, sweat and sacrifice that has to be laid down for any business to stand solidly. We see major world entrepreneurs win big time but we don’t know that they often have as many losses as wins. Beyond the expensive suits and cars, are people who take huge risks the average joe will not dare to try.

I have seen firsthand the risk taking involved in entrepreneurship and I know for a fact that entrepreneurship has both good and bad sides. In the wake of this there is an entrepreneurship fever going on in the twenty-first century, people are quitting their jobs to start businesses of their own.

Here is a quick guideline to see if you are cut-out for entrepreneurship.

 

You like to be in charge.

To effectively run a business, you need to possess leadership qualities; the leadership style you choose to run your company or organization by is up to you and your personality type. If you usually shy away from being in charge, then entrepreneurship might not just be for you.

 

You like risk taking.

Risk taking is a huge part of being an entrepreneur, most successful entrepreneurs started out being just people with great ideas but what distinguishes entrepreneurs is the ability to take risks. They take well calculated risk, and even if it doesn’t work out, they go back to their drawing boards to figure out what went wrong. Risk taking involves stepping out in faith, doing things even if you are afraid that they might not work out.

 

You have a good attitude towards failure.

Entrepreneurs are bold and confident in their decision making; they take responsibility for their actions. Even if a decision cost them huge financial lose, they still push forward.

You might have heard of entrepreneurs who have lost a lot due to the crash in the price of their stocks or changes in trade regulations that benefited them before, entrepreneurs understand that business even well planned ones can change over time, according to trends, emerging pop culture, technology etc.

 

You understand people.

It is very crucial for an entrepreneur to be good at recognizing people, their behaviors and likely potential as regards the organization they work in, an entrepreneur should be able to connect with possible customers, employees and influencers.

These will help them in knowing the best fit for different positions in his or her organization; understand what kinds of product and services customers will want from their organization. Although some of these can be outsourced to third parties, it is good as an entrepreneur to have an idea human behavior.

 

You are prudent with money.

A good entrepreneur knows how to manage funds whether limited or in abundance, without proper management of funds the business will go down fast.

As an entrepreneur especially if your company is still in its start-up stages, you need to know when to call it pay day or when to reinvest profits in the business.

 

You are disciplined and exercise self-control.

Focus is essential for every entrepreneur; discipline and self-control are needed to maintain that focus. Entrepreneurship takes extra work at least for the early stages of building your business.

You will need to go extra miles to grow a business, and even when the business is fully developed, to maintain a steady growth pattern, you will need to put in the hours into ensuring that your business does not decline.

Are there any risks you have taken as an entrepreneur, please share with us in the comment box below.

Walk The Talk: The follow through process.

“Words do less than 10 things, but actions do more than 10 thousand things. Leaders don’t talk in vain; they follow with actions.” Israelmore Ayivor

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Talk is cheap goes the popular saying, unless you are an MC or standup comedian who gets paid to talk, then just saying things you will do and not acting on them can kill your chances of ever achieving your dreams. It is common for ambitious people to verbalize their dreams to their family and friends and possible prospective investors but the real trick comes in pursuing those ideas no matter the obstacles one might encounter.

If you observe closely everyone has some sort of dream they will like to achieve or the next big idea but the question is are they willing to pay the price to see these dreams come to reality, many people give up on dreams when the road to achieving those dreams get rough or after they have had several setbacks.

Since this is a new year, you can have a fresh start; here are 6 ways to walk the talk.

  • Write down your dreams or ambitions, don’t just say it put it in ink and paper (a journal preferable).
  • Expect setbacks not failure, success by chance or at first trial are rare but if it happens to you then congratulations.
  • Expect hard work, someone once said people run away from opportunities because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. If you want to be successful be prepared to serve the time necessary.
  • Be accountable, have a mentor or someone who has achieved success in the area you are pursuing and seek their advice and counsel.
  • Be courageous, take a step towards achieving your dreams, I have tried it, it was scary at first but it paid off in the end. Sign up for that class, invest in that business etc. No one ever achieves anything by doing nothing.
  • Believe, be optimistic, be positive, have faith, the need for these can never be over emphasized.

 

​THE 48 LAWS OF POWER (Book Review)

 

Power has always been one of the most craved commodities throughout history from the cave man to the screen swiping man. Time has not depleted man’s thirst for power. Robert Greene the author of the book  “The 48 Laws of Power” doesn’t just give us a peek into the minds of some of the most powerful people in history, he is generous and explicit about the workings of  the canny , intelligent, ruthless and crafty minds of this  great men  and women . The book has a rich cultural diversity as the author regales the reader with stories from different parts of the world.

Sincerely when I first saw the book the title alone put me off, it sounded like a book for power crazy people who only seek to control and manipulate others. But soon enough my perspective changed and I decided it would be good to equip myself with this knowledge. Human behavior is complex and sometimes unpredictable; as I read the book I began to understand the behavior of those around me in relation to power and manipulation and most importantly the motives behind those behaviors.

People who need to read this book

EVERYONE

People in politics, Civil servants, Corporate executives, Entrepreneurs, Anyone in people service (Nurses, sales men etc), Religious leaders.

EXCERPTS FROM THE BOOK

LAW 1: “NEVER OUTSHINE THE MASTER”

Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite that is inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.

LAW 4: “ALWAYS SAY LESS THAN NECESSARY”

When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say the more common you appear and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it would seem more original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.

CAUTION

Be mindful how you use the information in this book, it’s quite unfortunate that good folks might be skeptical about the book and not read it. I beg you! open your mind and equip yourself while still holding on to your core values, use it as a defense because while you ignore books like the 48 laws of power, someone out there is not only reading The 48 Laws of Power but also developing strategies to outwit and outsmart you.

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THE ABUNDANCE MENTALITY


‘Have a Mentality of Abundance, we don’t work in vain. Faith is the key to success’ Julia Cameron



Looking back over the years of struggle as an entrepreneur, I have come to realize that it is not the lack you see around you that propels you forward but the abundance around and within you that causes you to do more and achieve success.

 Lack can be an obstacle but it is how the mind perceives lack that determines productivity. In every circumstance you find yourself there is always an abundance of opportunity. For the struggling entrepreneur a lack of adequate funds and support is an opportunity to be resourceful.

Having faith establishes an atmosphere in which creativity flourishes’. Julia Cameron

Abundance is often quantified in terms of wealth and material possession, but what about skill, talent and knowledge these are commodities that can be transformed into wealth given the right opportunity. Many world and business leaders today came from obscure and poor backgrounds, but they pushed against the lack in their lives and strived until they had breakthroughs in their various enterprise.

‘If you have talent, devotion and plenty of perseverance, does that mean prosperity in some form is inevitable? Yes. Julia Cameron

So today friends irrespective of what you think is lacking in your life get up, get busy, get working with an abundance mentality and blocked ways will pave for you, locked doors will open for you.

Last week, I was perusing through Goodreads looking to find my next great read when I stumbled upon some quotes from T. Harv Eker, the author of Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth. His book made it on the New York Times bestseller list and became #1 on the Wall Street […]

via Thoughts on Financial Freedom from the Millionaire Mind — Our Frugal Escapades

Walking The Talk

 

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“Words do less than 10 things, but actions do more than 10 thousand things. Leaders don’t talk in vain; they follow with actions.” Israelmore Ayivor

Talk is cheap goes the popular saying, unless you are an MC or standup comedian who gets paid to talk, then just saying things you will do and not acting on them can kill your chances of ever achieving your dreams. It is common for ambitious people to verbalize their dreams to their family and friends and possible prospective investors but the real trick comes in pursuing those ideas no matter the obstacles one might encounter.

If you observe closely everyone has some sort of  dream they will like to achieve or the next big idea but the question is are they willing to pay the price to see these dreams come to reality, many people give up on dreams when the road to achieving those dreams get rough or after they have had several setbacks.

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seanstormes.com

 

Since this is a new year, you can have a fresh start; here are 6 ways to walk the talk.

  • Write down your dreams or ambitions, don’t just say it put it in ink and paper (a journal preferable).

 

  • Expect setbacks not failure, success by chance or at first trial are rare but if it happens to you then congratulations.

 

  • Expect hard work, someone once said people run away from opportunities because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. If you want to be successful be prepared to serve the time necessary.

 

  • Be accountable, have a mentor or someone who has achieved success in the area you are pursuing and seek their advice and counsel.

 

  • Be courageous, take a step towards achieving your dreams, I have tried it, it was scary at first but it paid off in the end. Sign up for that class, invest in that business etc. No one ever achieves anything by doing nothing.

 

  • Believe, be optimistic, be positive, have faith, the need for these can never be over emphasized.

 

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