Reflections of a Man By Amari Soul (Book Review)

In a world of false assumptions, lies, deceit and the crushing desire to be loved, author Amari soul exposes the hearts of men and their likely intentions towards the women in them. This book is insightful and a must read for both single and married women.

The book has a unique blend of earthly wisdom and emotional intelligence that will help today’s woman to navigate the world of men.

Here are  ten of my favourite Quotes from the books

1) “One of the most frustrating positions you, as a good woman, could ever find yourself in, is in a relationship with a man who makes you feel like you’re still single.”

2) “Some of you will fall asleep tonight and dream of what it would be like to be truly loved, then wake up in the morning and choose to waste your time on a man you know doesn’t love you.”

3) “One of the hardest things you’ll ever try to do is continue to love someone you no longer respect.”

4) Some of you are more “in love” with the idea of “being in love” than you are “in love” with the person you are with.

5) “What hurts you the most is not the fact that it’s over, but rather that you chose to waste your time with him in the first place.”

6) “When your love is real, it’s hard to just stop loving someone…even after they’ve proven to you over and over again that they don’t deserve your love.”

7) “When a strong woman finally gives up, it’s not because she‘s weak or because she no longer loves her man. To put it in the simplest terms…she’s just tired. She’s tired of the games… she’s tired of the sleepless nights…she’s tired of feeling like she’s all alone and the only one trying… she’s tired.”

8) “The reality is that sometimes, it takes more strength to let go than it does to keep holding on.”

9) You just have to say to yourself, “I’m not willing to accept anything less than what I deserve! I am smart! I am beautiful! I am a good woman, and I deserve to be happy!” It all starts with you.

10) Why settle for being a “side” or a “main” when there is a good man out there waiting to make you his “only.”

Where to get the book,, Goodreads, Bookshops or any other Online store.

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​THE 48 LAWS OF POWER (Book Review)


Power has always been one of the most craved commodities throughout history from the cave man to the screen swiping man. Time has not depleted man’s thirst for power. Robert Greene the author of the book  “The 48 Laws of Power” doesn’t just give us a peek into the minds of some of the most powerful people in history, he is generous and explicit about the workings of  the canny , intelligent, ruthless and crafty minds of this  great men  and women . The book has a rich cultural diversity as the author regales the reader with stories from different parts of the world.

Sincerely when I first saw the book the title alone put me off, it sounded like a book for power crazy people who only seek to control and manipulate others. But soon enough my perspective changed and I decided it would be good to equip myself with this knowledge. Human behavior is complex and sometimes unpredictable; as I read the book I began to understand the behavior of those around me in relation to power and manipulation and most importantly the motives behind those behaviors.

People who need to read this book


People in politics, Civil servants, Corporate executives, Entrepreneurs, Anyone in people service (Nurses, sales men etc), Religious leaders.



Always make those above you feel comfortably superior. In your desire to please or impress them, do not go too far in displaying your talents or you might accomplish the opposite that is inspire fear and insecurity. Make your masters appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.


When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say the more common you appear and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it would seem more original if you make it vague, open-ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.


Be mindful how you use the information in this book, it’s quite unfortunate that good folks might be skeptical about the book and not read it. I beg you! open your mind and equip yourself while still holding on to your core values, use it as a defense because while you ignore books like the 48 laws of power, someone out there is not only reading The 48 Laws of Power but also developing strategies to outwit and outsmart you.

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Setting and meeting up with goals takes determination and discipline, Brain Tracy’s book ‘’GOALS’’ illuminates easy step by step methods to set realistic goals and live up to them, when I first came across this book, at the beginning of this year (2016) i read the book and set goals for myself, am halfway through the year and when I reviewed the goals I set at the beginning of the year I found out that I had accomplished at least 70% of them.


This book it has changed my goal setting abilities and helped me live up those goals, what am doing now is reviewing those goals I couldn’t achieve and setting new ones to accomplish them. Goal setting and following through with your goals is a process, it takes time but it’s totally worth it.





Everyone has a dream whether it is to one day own a big business or to be able to speak a certain language, a key instruments towards achieving your dreams is to set goals towards these dreams, goals bring you closer to your dreams. They create an internalized atmosphere towards achieving things you once thought were impossible. Here are a few quotes from the book


  • “You can learn anything you need to learn to accomplish any goal you can set for yourself.” No one is smarter than you and no one is better than you. All business skills, sales skills and moneymaking skills are learnable.
  • “Only 3% of adults have written goals, and everyone else works for them.”
  • “Only20% of the reasons you are not achieving your goal are on the outside. Always start with yourself.”


If you are thinking short term or long term goals this is the book for you. ENJOY THE READ

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